{"product_id":"the-house-with-no-mirrors-paperback","title":"The House with No Mirrors - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eTania Choi\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eYou were never taught to doubt yourself.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou were taught to become someone else.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe've been told that healing begins with self-love. That if we could simply think differently, love ourselves more, or become more authentic, we would finally feel whole.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eBut before there can be self-love, there must first be a Self.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if the question was never, \u003cem\u003eHow do I love myself?\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if the question is, \u003cem\u003eHow does a Self come to exist in the first place?\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLong before language, achievement, or identity, the Self is formed in relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt is built through thousands of ordinary moments in which a child is accurately seen, reflected, and known.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen those reflections are missing, children do not stop developing.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThey adapt.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome become exceptional.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome become responsible for everyone else.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome tell the truth no one wants to hear.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome disappear.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome become whoever they need to be to remain loved.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThese are not personality types. They are the Mirror Children(TM)-brilliant developmental adaptations that once protected connection, even as they eclipsed the Self.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWeaving memoir, developmental psychology, attachment theory, neuroscience, and decades of clinical work, \u003cem\u003eThe House With No Mirror \u003c\/em\u003eexplores how the Self is formed, what happens when those developmental mirrors are missing, and why so many adults feel as though they have spent a lifetime performing instead of living.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing from her work as a psychotherapist and from her own story growing up between cultures, Singapore-born Tania Choi introduces the Mirror Children(TM)-five relational adaptations that explain how we lose ourselves in order to stay connected, and how that Self can begin to return through Relational Repair.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePerhaps you were never broken.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePerhaps no one ever reflected you clearly enough for a Self to fully emerge.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd perhaps what you've been searching for all these years was never gone.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt has been waiting, patiently, for someone to finally see it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 302\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.68 x 8.5 x 5.5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e September 01, 2026\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":54090798793011,"sku":"9798997123116","price":34.34,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0300\/5595\/6612\/files\/DMXfo81xUa9798997123116.webp?v=1789609776","url":"https:\/\/www.vysn.com\/products\/the-house-with-no-mirrors-paperback","provider":"VYSN","version":"1.0","type":"link"}