{"product_id":"thaw-freedom-from-frozen-feelings-paperback","title":"Thaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eMsw Lcsw Carter\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eTHAW - Freedom from Frozen Feelings\u003c\/i\u003e, is a book about the emotional wounds of abandonment, shame, and contempt created by growing up in a less-than-nurturing family. If you experience abandonment issues, emotional flooding, toxic shame, or a pattern of dysfunctional relationships, or you help people who do, THAW - Freedom from Frozen Feelings is a \"must have\".\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003eThis first book in the \u003ci\u003eThawing the Iceberg Series\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003eThaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings\u003c\/i\u003e outlines: \u003cb\u003e \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eThe wounding process\u003c\/b\u003e experienced by those who were raised in a less-than-nurturing family\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eHow those emotional wounds show up\u003c\/b\u003e in various personal and interpersonal problems in adulthood\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eAn innovative, easy-to-understand, integrated model \u003c\/b\u003eof addiction, codependency, enabling relationships, Adult\/Child Syndrome, \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow fear of abandonment, toxic shame, and contempt for self or others are created by \u003cb\u003etrauma and attachment wounds\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSubsequent books in the \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eThawing the Iceberg Series\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e focus on specific manifestations of emotional wounds from childhood and how they impact on adult lives and relationships\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eModerate-to-severe cases of abandonment \u003c\/b\u003ecome from situations in which the child does not fully or consistently get their emotional dependency needs to be met such as when the child lives in a shame-based family system. In such families, the children get messages of disapproval through constant criticism rather than messages of approval and warmth. A shame-based family system is characterized by the parent's use of shame to provide direction.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhen parents do not meet the needs of their children it is not usually because the parents don't love them. I say 'usually' because there are those cases that one cannot understand, accept, explain, or excuse for any reason. But most parents do the best they can, given the internal and external resources they possess, to take care of their children. In fact, I cannot count the times I have heard parents say \"I try hard to make sure my kids have it better than I did.\" This speaks very loudly to me. It says that these parents are familiar with unmet dependency needs.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSo, most often it is not the parent's lack of love or effort that is to blame. Wounded people wound people!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTHAW - Freedom from Frozen Feelings\u003c\/i\u003eTable of Contents: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 1: \"What the hell is wrong with you?\" Motivation, Dependency Needs, Iceberg Model\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 2: Anatomy of an Emotional Wound Abandonment, Shame, \u0026amp; Contempt - The False Self\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 3: The Art of Survival External Focus, Impression Management - The Invented Self\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 4: Who am I Really? Imperfect World \u0026amp; Spirituality - The True Self\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 5: Distractions \u0026amp; Dependencies Addictions, Obsessions\/Compulsions, and Other Issues\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 6: Codependency \u0026amp; Control Drama Triangle, Punish\/Forgive, Enabling, Distance \u0026amp; Pursuit\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 7: Creating Frozen Feeling-States Fight-Flight-or-Freeze and the Figure 8\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 8: Meeting the Family-of-Self, Ego-States, and the Wounded Inner Children\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 9: Homeostasis \u0026amp; Hitting Bottom Reaching Out, Resistance, \u0026amp; Relapse\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 10: The Tip of the Iceberg First things First, Networks of Addiction, Signs of Addiction\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 11: Developing a Safe Container Letting Go of Codependency \u0026amp; Turning the Focus Inward\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 12: Thawing Frozen Feeling-States Rewiring the Brain, Logical Levels, Neural Nets \u0026amp; the 12-Steps\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e- Chapter 13: Pathways of Ongoing Recovery\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ci\u003eEach of the first four books in the Thawing the Iceberg Series contains the Iceberg Model and then branches off in their own directions to address specific issues that spring from childhood abandonment issues.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eDon Carter is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in private practice in the Jefferson City \u0026amp; Columbia, Missouri area. Don has been in practice as a therapist for over 25 years during which time he has been employed at several mental health agencies around Mid-Missouri. His primary specialty areas include addictions, codependency, mood disorders, PTSD, and Adult\/Child Syndrome. Along with his Bachelors and Masters degrees, Don has specialized training in NLP, Clinical Hypnosis, and Addictionology. Learn more about Don and his other books at www.internet-of-the-mind.com.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 186\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.4 x 9 x 6 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e October 23, 2011\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":52515823124787,"sku":"9781466456402","price":28.04,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0300\/5595\/6612\/files\/UlJDbEErUkc4YzFIYUE5dHN0RVNlQT09.webp?v=1760417837","url":"https:\/\/www.vysn.com\/products\/thaw-freedom-from-frozen-feelings-paperback","provider":"VYSN","version":"1.0","type":"link"}