{"product_id":"when-love-is-not-enough-parenting-a-child-with-trauma-reactive-attachment-disorder-and-borderline-traits-paperback","title":"When Love Is Not Enough: Parenting a Child with Trauma, Reactive Attachment Disorder and Borderline Traits - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eRj Koehler\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhen Love Is Not Enough: A Memoir of Parenting, Trauma, and Survival\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat happens when love alone cannot save a child from their trauma? In \u003cb\u003eWhen Love Is Not Enough\u003c\/b\u003e, RJ Koehler shares a raw and honest memoir of one adoptive family's journey through Reactive Attachment Disorder, borderline personality traits, and the unhealed trauma of a young girl named Julia.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eJulia's early years left invisible wounds that shaped her identity, relationships, and ability to trust. What began as hope for a new start quickly became a cycle of manipulation, aggression, self-destruction, and emotional unpredictability. For years, her adoptive family fought to provide safety, structure, and love while surviving the daily crises her behaviors created.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEven when Julia returned to her biological mother, the trauma followed, repeating the same painful patterns. This is a story of love and of letting go. It is the hard truth that sometimes saving someone is beyond your power, and survival requires courage, boundaries, and resilience.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eAlso by RJ Koehler: \u003c\/b\u003e \u003ci\u003eWhat He Didn't Break\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eChoosing Life After Loss\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Weight of Silence\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFrequently Asked Questions (FAQ)\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhat is reactive attachment disorder (RAD)?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eRAD is a condition where a child has difficulty forming healthy emotional attachments due to early trauma or neglect.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhat are the signs of trauma in children?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSigns may include emotional outbursts, difficulty regulating behavior, attachment challenges, and intense reactions.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWho is this book for?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis memoir is for parents, caregivers, educators, and professionals working with children who have experienced trauma.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIs this based on real experiences?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYes. This memoir reflects RJ Koehler's real-life parenting experiences and challenges.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 106\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.22 x 9 x 6 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e November 24, 2025\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53300677050675,"sku":"9798994036525","price":33.98,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0300\/5595\/6612\/files\/A_z7w7K96n9798994036525.webp?v=1777496095","url":"https:\/\/www.vysn.com\/en-ca\/products\/when-love-is-not-enough-parenting-a-child-with-trauma-reactive-attachment-disorder-and-borderline-traits-paperback","provider":"VYSN","version":"1.0","type":"link"}