{"product_id":"leave-a-cheater-gain-a-life-the-chump-ladys-survival-guide-paperback","title":"Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eTracy Schorn\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThis no-nonsense guide is for anyone who has ever been cheated on and needs advice--not based on saving their relationship after infidelity--but saving their sanity. \u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e In the infidelity literature, cheaters get all the glory--their unmet needs, commitment challenges, and love triangle drama. They are the glamorous taboo breakers, star-crossed lovers, and rebels against the hegemonic forces of monogamy. Chumps (the betrayed partners) by contrast are the dullards left out of the discourse. When mentioned, it's to discuss how they failed to enchant and must \"own their part\" in their partner's infidelity. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ci\u003eLeave a Cheater, Gain a Life \u003c\/i\u003eputs the attention squarely on the cheated-upon. Written by a former chump, it's a resource that champions self-respect. It doesn't assume reconciliation or buy the victim-blaming narrative that we compel people to cheat on us by our inadequacies (or can win them back by being nicer). Instead, it puts responsibility for affairs squarely on cheaters and their crappy character. It also has a good time lampooning the absurd self-centeredness of cheating. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e Based on the writings of Tracy Schorn's popular infidelity blog ChumpLady.com, Schorn offers a masterclass on how to decode manipulation, fight back, and focus on gaining a life after betrayal.\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eTracy Schorn \u003c\/b\u003eis a journalist who runs the popular advice site ChumpLady.com and whose snarky wisdom and cartoons have helped millions of people leave cheaters. Her book has been a #1 bestseller on Amazon in divorce and her work has been cited in \u003ci\u003eThe New York Times, \u003c\/i\u003e the BBC, and other outlets. She's also the cohost of the podcast \u003ci\u003eTell Me How You're Mighty\u003c\/i\u003e. She lives in Pennsylvania with her husband Paul, a civil rights lawyer.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 240\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.8 x 8.2 x 5.5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eIllustrated:\u003c\/strong\u003e Yes\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e May 10, 2016\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53654990029107,"sku":"9780762458967","price":26.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0300\/5595\/6612\/files\/E1Z80Aoicz9780762458967.webp?v=1784013555","url":"https:\/\/www.vysn.com\/en-ca\/products\/leave-a-cheater-gain-a-life-the-chump-ladys-survival-guide-paperback","provider":"VYSN","version":"1.0","type":"link"}